The Pain behind the Fame

Lately, the music world was agog with yet another master class gossip which later became juicy for various online publications and In fact a starting point for bloggers as they scrapped for more details and details going by the names  so involved in this perceived public implosion.  The entertainment world got rocked as music super star and Queen of Marvin -Tiwa Savage got trapped in a sudden matrimonial cascade involving spouse Tunji Balogun alias TeeBillz.

The duo who got married some two years ago in a very resplendent wedding ceremony far away Dubai suddenly became the center of attention as their matrimonial roses fell apart both internally and externally thus giving rise to ceaseless public analysis and attractions. For a moments, every body became an expert in matrimonial courses, as both young and old deliberated on the issue conspicuously. Some even became instant juries while some others turned into an overnight analyst writing open letters on the issues as though they had a P.PhD in marital affairs and matrimonial counseling. These analyst who were not restricted from just fans also cut her bounds among several entertainers, celebrities, perceived OAPs and co as they shared their various hypocritical views and opinions pretending to be loved ones who cares while hitting the polity unnecessarily. Behold! Some even resorted to proffering very malicious solutions while others raised the standard on the social media level trying to play to pity as if they really care about what happens afterwards.

Marriage is pristine no doubt, but it remains the only institution where graduation is never guarantee as her students are constantly learning, making mistakes,  correcting faults and Infact improving on such corrections while creating innovations acquired during all this processes. Just like life, Marriage is never a bed of roses as her students are either constantly writing exams or taking test in other to get the best out of every situations and practices. Some may fail while others may pass, but then, that doesn't make anybody a master piece as the institution is way to large for one to boast of becoming a grand master of all her teachings and doctrines. Most importantly, the beauty of this institutions remains the daring fact that though all her students maybe
in one class, but their lesson note are never the same as we all have our different applications to solving our problems hence no one is permitted to copy least he fails.

Anybody could fail, be it Mr President, be it a celebrity or  better still Mr Clergy. The restrictions are unlimited, that is why it is foolhardy for anyone to call a feast over other people's failures in their Holy Matrimony. As for celebrities, such hiccups are just one of the plenty pains behind the fame, a celebrity gets so much fame no doubt, but then, a twist in their most loved relationship can result in so much pains even more greater than the perceived fame. One thing is certain, the pain behind every fame will either make or mar any individual depending on its application. If handled properly, the storm might just become a stepping stone to a greater stardom. However, the reverse becomes the case when we fail to raise the bar above such murky waters.

I hear so many criticize, other throwing shades, while some more had sermonized already on other people's Matrimonial break. But then, what they fail to know remains the very daring fact that so long the this inevitable institution exist we all must become students someday and no body is alienated from failing as not even the teachers are experts reasons why it was tagged "Holy Matrimony" which means only the supreme being can intervene when the bond gets loosened as a result of our human errors.

#Pray4TiwaTeeBillz